Dating Coaching

Level-Up Your

Confidence 

I help thoughtful, introverted, high-achieving men navigate the modern dating scene to build genuine connections with high-value, feminine women.

Modern Dating Can Feel Confusing and Exhausting…

It happened one too many times. After weeks of swiping on the apps, you finally met someone you like! You got their number, talked for a while, maybe went on a date (or not), and then it fizzled. Maybe they told you it’s not a good fit or even worse, they ghosted. Either way, you’re left wondering… what happened?

 

Does This Sound Like You?

  • Feel confident in your professional life but more reserved socially
  • Struggle to initiate romantic connections with women
  • Overthink romantic interactions and texting conversations
  • Want to present yourself more naturally and authentically
  • Seeking genuine connection over games and gimmicks

But You Don’t Have To Navigate It Alone!

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MEET YOUR DATING COACH

Charlotte Gates, PhD, MS

I’m a psychologist, dating coach, and personal branding consultant with 14 years of experience helping clients transform their mindset, elevate their self-image, and build genuine connections. I combine practical dating strategy with deep personal growth to help you understand and master your subconscious psychological patterns.

I also work as an image consultant to help clients understand how to dress for their body type, skin tone/coloring, and personal essence. I love helping people discover their custom color palette and signature style so they can look and feel their personal best!

I have a Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology from University of North Carolina at Greensboro, M.S. in Neuroscience & Applied Cognition from Université Paul Sabatier-Toulouse III, and B.S. in Psychology from Louisiana State University. 

 

Ready to Get Started?

Important Disclaimers

1) This is not therapy. Although I am a licensed psychologist, I offer dating coaching services strictly as a coach; therefore I cannot diagnose or treat mental health conditions in the context of a coaching relationship. I am not accepting therapy clients at this time. If you need mental health treatment, I can provide a list of referrals.

2) You can’t date me. I am here in a professional context. I don’t date clients now or ever. Inappropriate comments or any form of sexual harassment are not tolerated and will be grounds for immediate termination of the coaching relationship.